GIVE THEN BALANCE

When you give, give without an expectation. If you've ever felt used or under appreciated (🙋🏻) think about this concept for a second before you continue to read. ____ As a society we need to let go of the idea of treating people the way we want to be treated because everyones expectations are different. Some people go out of their way to be kind, some people go out of their way to reciprocate, and sometimes there are people who don't do anything... and sometimes (as the giver) it can bring a feeling of under appreciation and resentment. ___ Bottomline: If you treat people the way you want to be treated and expect something in return, you will be disappointed. ___ I used to get really frustrated when I felt under appreciated... sometimes I still do (because I'm human) but I realize I'm in control of my feelings. ___ The key is to be true to yourself (not what you think is expected of you) in any given situation, because if you think you're obligated to fulfill something for someone else, your mind will create judgements and expectations. ___ Just give because you want to, or don't give at all. But I will say that by giving, we experience love; when we give, it comes back to us by creating a balance in the heart, mind and soul.

#loveyourselfunconditionally